2008--A year for Change

Well, it has been over 9 months since I started this blog and I never even posted anything. That is going to change! 2008 has been a year of so many changes for me and so I'm turning over a new leaf. Phillip and I declared bankruptcy so now I am completely debt free. And now, Phillip is divorcing me. I have moved home with my parents and I've decided I need to make some changes in my life. I'm going to remain debt free, I'm going to finish my anatomy course and get my coding classes done, and get my coding licence! I'm also going to join a gym and try to make some changes in my life. I figured I'm done living my life to make Phil happy. Apparently that didn't work since he is no longer in love with me. I'm going to live for ME now. Its all about me!! (Yeah that sounds conceited, but if I dont take care of me, who will?) Along with these new changes, I'm going to try really hard to keep my blog up and running. I have several friends that are doing it and I love reading theirs to see whats going on in their lives, so I figure its a good way to keep a journal so to speak.

So...Update of 2008:

1. Bankruptcy. Sucks, but its good to be debt free. (The hardest part is knowing that I wouldnt have had to if it weren't for Phil, but I can't change that.)

2. I'm getting a divorce.

3. I'm living with my parents.

4. I don't get to keep my kitties :( But I finally convinced my dad to let me have Princess)

5. I have gained the world's absolute best friend!!!

Thanks to the power of the internet, my old friend Jen found me on Facebook. We were in drumline together back in high school. We weren't really close friends. I remember her being cool and all, but we never hung out outside of drumline. But now we hang out all the time, and she is the freaking shiznit! She's become my best friend, and a great shoulder to cry on during these really hard times (with the divorce and all.) I really don't know how I would have survived all the drama in my life right now without her!! And she's been helping me get off my lazy depressed butt and get out and enjoy life.

Here are a few pics of us being crazy and goofy and helping me get on with my life:

I love my Jen!! <3